Advice required for unhappy marriage
Dear Sir,
I am an engineer working in Mumbai.I got married on 09/feb/04.My D.o.b is 04/03/72 t.o.b. = 0745 am ,pob= shillong(meghalaya).My wife dob is 09/04/77
to b = 0645 am ,pob=coimbatore.Since 5 years we have not consummtd the marriage cos I am not interested in her physically & also I feel her family is not the type I can live with forever.In short I am feeling suffocated every moment of my time with her.Unfortunately this marriage was done as both of us were only looking out for some support outside the family due to circumstances.In reality we were not attracted to each other.We are now planning to divorce instead of having a kid due to family pressures & putting the kid to the lifelong misery of hateful parents.Please advice if we both will have a happy 2nd marriage & live happily with kids out of our 2nd marriage.This is of grave concern now cos I am 36.5 yrs & she is 32 yrs & we need to take early action as we dont know how long it will take for the divorce decree .Thus we may get remarried only at 38 & 34 yrs & then have kids maybe by 40 & 36 yrs respectively in the 2nd marriage ,thus delaying our family life.Please give genuine advice on both our futures if we divorce 7 remarr
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